I was so stubborn that I do not like the word “CHANGE”.Sometimes, when your mind is made up, change is hard. I had so many disappointments coming my way during my years of dating to love, hoping to find the right man for me; I almost gave up on love. My friends will say there is someone out there for me and I would just laugh out loud because I never believed the word “LOVE” exists.When dating was new, there were not many that joined these sites.There are more choices today with dating because there are more people joining.As online dating increases in use, more preferences are being offered.Online dating sites through the internet are available for anyone interested in finding a date or a mate.
You need him or her to be a part of your life in some way or another, not because you want to own a piece of this person, but because you want to give him or her a piece of yourself; loving someone is deeming him or her worthy of owning a part of you.Often times I would think I have found that special person I would love to spend my eternity with but then I was wrong. I just wanted to love and be loved by a special person.I found out that what I desired from the relationship and what I had to offer was different. The men I fell in love with tend to have different ideas.Some of them just wanted a “NIGHT STAND THING”, some just seemed to want friendship while some didn’t really know what they wanted.I discovered that I stayed in the relationships for too long. I did this continually because I believed the relationship will get better. Hearts were broken repeatedly over the years, and although I wish the pain could have been avoided, the experiences taught me more than any book or class ever could.