Placing the baby child under the cot denoted that she is weak and she should humble herself before men.
Women in ancient Chinese culture were often humiliated.
I found the following table on Renren as a guide to dating and after looking at it: I concluded that what’s easy to do is also easy not to do.
So we’ve gotten a few questions lately about dating in China.
That's because her grandparents' and possibly (depending on where in China she is from) her parents still value marital stability above all else in their time, given the instability and volatility of their eras.
In fact, I once dated a girl who would only meet up at places that her parents AND grandmother had pre-approved; as you can imagine none of these places were very fun.