One of the keys to social calibration is understanding the cues and context that tell you when a woman is open to being approached and when she isn’t.
Now an obvious caveat: people are people and everyone sets their boundaries where they see fit.
Anyone who reads my site for long enough knows I’m a big proponent of the cold approach.
Learning how to approach women, strike up a conversation and charming them into being interested in going on a date with you is a difficult – but important – skill to master.
At any point during each session you can simply press the "next" button to skip to another new person.
Every time you skip to a new user, the new user is picked completely at random, so you never know who the next person will be. Now, you're probably wondering, why do we provide an alternative to sites like Chat Roulette?
But just as important as it is to be willing to approach women you don’t know, it’s important to know when you approached.
Of course, just joining itself is a big benefit when you see all the new great people you can meet from all over the world, it truly is one of a kind.
There will always be exceptions to every rule and people who may be receptive to being approached under these circumstances.
Many people – myself included – have experiences where they have successfully gotten a number or a date or what-have-you from a bartender, a waitress, someone they met on the bus or the train. You can’t bank on people explicit indications that she’s interested in talking to you… It’s better to “miss out” on an opportunity than to end up being yet another warm body in the asshole conga-line of her day.
Who goes from being a stranger to a full-blown creeper in the span of a couple sentences because they won’t take a hint. They will complain that it’s unfair to miss out on missing someone awesome just because some creeper somewhere might have weirded a woman out.
This is one of the reasons why social calibration is one of the most important parts of getting better at dating; recognizing the times when it is and appropriate to approach women is vital – not just to your dating success but to avoiding being creepy by accident.